The following obituary for Sougher was published in the PDMHS newsletter last year:
Margaret Howard (née May), 1932 - 2014
Margaret was born in Derby and epitomised the saying "Derbyshire born Derbyshire bred, strong in the arm and quick in the head."
From an early age she enjoyed walking in the Peak District and soon was fascinated with the underground, both caves and mines. She married a caver, John Oakley, who was a member of Op Mole, based at Oxclose Mine; the marriage was short lived. She came to Magpie with Reg Howard and both were soon regular attendees at the Field Centre. Margaret was an active member going on and leading walks, the classic being Margaret’s “Uphill Walk”. As Harry Parker said “We started out from Wensley walking uphill and walked uphill all day back to the start.” Margaret served on the Society Committee and wrote several articles for the Bulletin, one of which (R. Buckley and M. Howard, Greensward Mine and its Pumps, Monyash, Derbyshire, Mining History Vol. 12 No. 6.) was awarded The Ford Award for 1996, jointly with Roy Buckley.
Margaret knew Nellie Kirkham through going on her walks, and played no little part in persuading Nellie to get involved with the Society. Through other contacts, Roy Buckley and Frank Sheen, Margaret was involved in obtaining the Society its first powered winch, complete with a 750 foot brand new cable. Reg and Margaret moved to Hampshire, married and had four children. Margaret kept in touch with members of the Society and on her divorce in the late 1970s moved back to Derbyshire with the children. Then began a nomadic period moving about Derbyshire, staying in Sawmills, Oker and Bonsall. The children moved away, except that Tim and Margaret finally settled in a small cottage in Bonsall.
She became one of the first “Silver Surfers”, using the internet not only for research but to keep in touch with members and friends. Life is cruel and with failing eye sight and hearing Margaret had to leave her beloved Bonsall and move back down south to be cared for by her daughter and family. She managed to remain in touch and a member in spite of failing health, and passed away in March.
Most of her family are members of the Society, and Tim is a great supporter at the Field Centre. A Service of Thanksgiving for Margaret’s life was held at the Wessex Vale Crematorium, Hampshire, on the 11th of April.
Mave and Mike Luff
Follow the horses, Johnny my laddie, follow the horses canny lad-oh!