I can understand your feelings.
Despite having been at this a while, I still don't know how best to describe the collective of us, but 'exploration community' sounds reasonably respectable :lol:
The person I spoke with seemed to perk up when I mentioned how much money the group I hang about with, has put the way of a particular hostel and pub. If we don't sell ourselves, if we don't speak up, we can't complain when we get left out.